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The Wrestler is the kind of movie you walk away from awestruck and speechless. It's an ambitious look at a certain pattern of destructive behavior, taking the form of a person putting up self-deluding psychological armor against the world and boxing out life's real, meaningful situations in favor of dealing with the world through a hollow dream that is projected onto oneself and those with whom one exists. Compulsive fantasy role-playing, if you will.The titular character is Randy "The Ram" Robinson, played excellently by Mickey Rourke. Randy, or just "Ram" (he's addressed with both names at various points in the movie) is a professional wrestler, some twenty years removed from the peak of his career, in which he fought a spot-on caricature of the offensive wrestling characters and events of old, this one waving an Iranian flag with bad intent and calling himself "The Ayatollah." It was a glorious high, as made clear by the film's introductory perusal of its fliers and taglines, as well as the existence of an 8-bit Nintendo game that's used at one point to re-enact the match. Now, in the twilight of his years and despite financial difficulties and an inability to draw quite the crowd he once could, Ram is a happy enough guy who juggles low-key wrestling events and a part-time supermarket job.
In his free time, Ram frequents a local strip club and cozies up to Cassidy, also known by her real name, Pam, at some points in the movie. Played by a constantly naked Marisa Tomei (no complaints; just sayin'), she engages conversation with Ram in a way befitting real friends at the very least, and practices her craft for his entertainment. Theirs is a bond between two different kinds of dancers with two different kinds of audiences, and their relationships with themselves and with those audiences track and intersect one another throughout the film. At the end of every day, though, he's still just a customer to her, and as such, pays Cassidy for her time.
Things are OK for Ram until he has a heart attack and learns he can't wrestle any more. He finds himself struggling for meaning in the world, deprived of the one way he was able to grope through some sort of existence, and the artificial construct of the world he's built inside his brain implodes. The green spandex pants, the posters reminding him of his day in the limelight with the Ayatollah, the '80s hair metal music played at deafening volumes while cruising down the highway, the random hookups with younger girls -- none of them are fulfilling without the mental fuel he always needed to make them jibe. Precisely, this was an innate ability to tune out an honest approach to events and people in his life and to hide inside of a superstar image he projected on himself.
Looking for direction, he goes back to Cassidy after leaving the hospital, thinking she might represent his one chance at filling the resultant loneliness in his life. After all, he doesn't really know anybody else. Except when Cassidy balks, signaling that Ram should probably know better than to ask and that maybe this is a time for him to call family, it turns out he has an estranged daughter, Stephanie. Stephanie leads a very different lifestyle than Ram, and he doesn't know her very well. Worse, he probably didn't want to until it turned out he might not have much time to live.
When he looks her up and meets her, it turns out the new feelings aren't mutual. Stephanie can't forgive his complete absence during her youth -- an absence he admittedly forced upon their relationship because to do otherwise would have been too difficult given his demanding schedule and emotional inability to connect with her. Stephanie thinks she sees right through a grubby attempt by a long-absent father to suckle a few years of elderly care off his daughter, and throws up her armor with full vigor. His challenge for the rest of the movie is to build this connection before it's too late, and by asking for the occasional spot of help from Cassidy, to transform the nature of that connection, as well.
Director Darren Aronofsky successfully captures Ram's approach to the world and subtly suggests what our reactions as both adoring fans and pitying observers should be. A large amount of the film is shot by cameras directly trailing the characters, combining a celebrity-obsessed followership with the blunt reality of some very unglamorous daily lifestyles. There is an arc of shot distances, too, that follows the storyline and the worldview changes initiated by Ram. Note the emphasis on uncomfortable, twitchy close-ups and piercing, intense sound effects at both the film's beginning and end, and the tendency toward harmony Aronofsky suggests through more relaxed shot distance and smoothed sounds at the center of the film.
There's also a lot of clever, ironic humor in this very tragic story. Aronofsky and writer Robert Siegel portray the amount and types of violence to which the wrestlers in the film subject themselves as ludicrously excessive, fairly turning their characters into crash test dummies. One is encapsulated in a trash can and battered with a nearby fan's prosthesis. A walking crutch wrapped in razorwire is deployed. At one point, while the camera is closely following Ram, he takes a steel chair from an audience member and smashes it into his own head, boosting his adrenaline and jarringly confronting the film's audience with the impulsive and destructive self-abuse required in order to entertain a particularly sadistic audience. The audience's whims are also subject for parody; their see-sawing between cheers for a face and boos for a heel (to say nothing of the chants' substance) is rife with instantaneous demands and emotions, suggesting that it's all pretty meaningless, anyway. Ram is made up at one point in the movie to look not-so-unlike a little girl with blond pigtails, and his technique at the grocery store deli counter is a thing of beauty. Particularly subversive is a brief series of cuts where Aronofsky moves from the farfetched and ridiculous to the poignant in drawing connections between the things people of different age and maturity levels hold in reverence. By moving quickly and deliberately from a young girl's room full of fireman posters to the '80s hair metal poster in Ram's trailer to an American flag in his bedroom (and holding the latter in the frame for a few cuts thereafter), Aronofsky finds at least a little bit of eye with his grasping thumb.
All said, Aronofsky & Co. put on a clinic with The Wrestler. If it gets the nomination for Best Picture, I'll have no problem with its winning for sheer quality, based on everything I've seen this year. I'm still partial to The Dark Knight for other reasons (overall, I think its victory would benefit the film industry and community to a greater extent), but The Wrestler is the superior pic. Besides, I was content with No Country for Old Men's victory last year despite my preference for There Will Be Blood. This is a movie to be seen in a theater, though, especially considering the use of uncomfortable close-ups and a soundtrack loaded with unsettling loud-volume effects. Don't miss the chance (provided you ignored my instructions above, in which case, jolly good show).






